Ok, so you can't really make people like you can you? I mean, you can't force people who currently don't like you to like you. That's probably mostly true. For instance, it seems like there's a lot of people who like a person just based on their looks. But beauty is only skin deep and there's a lot of beautiful people who you'll never be able to REALLY like. So what is my point?
Ok, so liking people is a little bit liking products. For instance, there's a ton of people out there that like Apple's iPod and iPhone and iPad products. I happen to be one person who at one time was what you could call and Apple Fan, because I thought they were like the best company in the world. I've since become more objective in my perspective of Apple computer and don't really like them as a company anymore but I still like their products? Why? Because their products really are good products that endear me to them. That just basically means that the products have a draw on me, and attraction.
That is what liking is about, it's about being attractive to the person that you want to like you. Some people will like you based on your personality, but you can like someone who's personality doesn't really attract you. For instance, if there's something you need or want and that person has the capability to give you that in exchange for a service, you can "like" them as employer. That is what liking is all about, having an interest or a need that you can fulfill for someone else.
So how do you make people like you? Give them something they need or want and you'll probably get some people that like you pretty quickly.
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